ok well everyone wanted to know what happened when i talked to christopehr's father. We decided that he wants to stick around and he said that he would liek christopehr to call him daddy which i am still working on cause i am still try to get used to him being a part of christophers life. He bought Christopher a john deere tractor for christmas which he did make sure it was ok with me first. He said he was going to stick around and all. We also talked about us ( he brought it up) we decided that right now the best thing foir us to do is stay friends until we see what the future holds. We kinda talked about child support and wheter i was going to put his name on the birth certificate and if i was going to change christopehrs last name to his i told him the last few issues would have to wait (except child support) until we seen what the future holds i dont want him to decide two months down the road he does not want to be a father and have changed everything because if i meet someone who really wants to be a father then i have to go through a whole bunch of stuff if the other guy was to want to adopt my son. well i hope everyone gives me some onput because it really helped last time with all the input you all gave me i am really glad to be a part of this group thasnk you so much April