omg.. I just found out that the little 18 year old my ex cheated on me with.. is 7 weeks pregnant. amazing.. i cant beleive this this means my ex will have 3 different children by 3 different mothers. can we say trash? sorry super irritated right now. i just want him to go away! he doesnt care about his son at all... i mean does calling once in 5 weeks sound like a loving father to you? grr.

What a loser! But imagine the CS he will have to pay when the mommies go for it! See there is a bright side to everything.

You're right he doesn't sound like good caring dad to your child.

Maybe he needs to be fixed!?!?!? Talke about a baby factory.

SPIRIT

Not always, but why do we women have to always be the responsible ones? My X was once a church going successful business man who was a great dad and a great husband. He decided to start gambeling, sleeping with women, and blowing our money up his nose. I left, he quit his job, went to rehab. He now has a sugar mama who is 15 years older than him. They are just traveling the world. Now I have to work my butt off at school and work and home. Luckily he had a vesectomy - he no longer can spread his seed.

I'm so sick of men! Staci, I can almost duplicate what you just said about my life. My ex is now dating some stupid b*tch and he'll probably get her pregnant anytime. I'm 27 weeks pregnant with his son that he wants no part of. He also has a four year old from a previous marriage that he doesn't take care of. Oh well, I'll get him for child support anyway. My baby's daddy (Tim-I hate him!!!!!!!) doesn't even call to see how I'm doing. I'm super irritated too! Anyway, I hope things are going well for you. I just needed to agree with you and tell you I know how you feel. Take care Tiffnbaby Keegan

yea he sounds like trash, i think i will keep my eye out for him the next time i watch Jerry Springer Show. does he have both of this front teeth to help me identify him?

Preach it sistas! Trashy men ****! My ex has 4 kids (that I last knew of) by 3 different moms and I know of 2 other women he talked into abortions!! AND HE'S ONLY 23!! One of his babies was born 3 months before mine, which means he knocked the wh*** up while we were still together. It's amazing the men we fall for, isn't it.... But I'll tell you one thing, I've learned alot from it all and I'm a million times stronger because of it!! Hang in there, he'll get what's coming to him!

I dont even know what to say to him about it.. i dont even wanna talk to him.. i havent said 5 words to him now in a week and those 5 words were to his voicemail. u know.. as far as im concerned my son has a sister.. the one who was my ex's child before my son was conceived. anything past that.. i'll never claim them. and that might be bitter and wrong to the kids.. but i dont care.. i dont want my son growing up confused as hell and thinking its ok to have tons of kids by tons of women.. i tell u what they should be able to court order vasectomys <sp?) for men like him.. and thats all i have to say about that!

My daughter is an only child. No brothers or sisters as far as she will ever know. She has no contact with her dad and I decided it will not benefit her in any way to know of brothers and sisters...even though there's probably at least 12 by now! His kids are not your responsibility - yours is. Focus on your son and what's best for him.

thank you... I agree with that idea.. there is no reason he should see his sperm donors actions as being ok. him growing up thinking he is an only child sounds good to me. his sperm donor obviously has no intention of being in his life.. why should his other children be? this will do nothing but make my son think this is ok. which isnt cool with me. thank you for your input and I think I will follow the same route with my son as you have with you daughter

Kmhdad- actually my sister and i were joking around about his first daughters mother and i taking him on springer lol.. yes he has all his teeth.. for now anyways.. he terrified of the dentist so its only a matter of time lol. but sadly whereas his future babymomma number 3 and him are cut from the same trashy cloth.. I wouldnt be caught dead on springer lol. in addition i have too many stretch marks to be taking my top off on live TV. LMAO!

staci, i only brought up springer because i saw a his show and some guy was with 3 women and had babies with all 3.
i would have to agree with alexmichele07, i dont think i would want to inttoduce the other kids to my daughter for fear of causing drama and bad influences on her. also i will have many many long talks to my daughter on what to look for and how to deal with guy like him when she starts to get a little older. i dont hink you will ever change him, he will be like that for the rest of his life. so i think you ladies have the right ideas.

thank you i'm just trying to protect my son from any more unneccesary letdown.

god girl i no how ur feelin, wot im gunna tell he bout her father wen she starts to ask is that he is dead, thats where he should b anyway

Do these guys believe in condoms? I guess I shouldn't complain then, I have no guy, recently divorced 3 years. I hope you all believe in Karma, it will get them! Keep doing what makes you happy, thats all you can do!

i beleive in karma 100% and its gonna bite him in the a$$ sooner or later.. like when hes in jail. lol. thats mean but im at the end of my rope.
and no I dont think he does beleive in condoms. and hes got some strong swimmers i was on the pill and still got preg. lol