I don't know whether this is the right forum but since this is about Ex's I thought I would put my post here. I really need some advice.

My Ex went on vacation and dropped the baby off on Thursday night which angered me to no end because he didn't let me know ahead of time. He gave me 1 hour notice. I told him he needed to pick up the baby on Monday night because his place gets in at 6 p.m. and he only lives 1/2 hour away. I called on Sunday night to confirm his flight info and he went ballistic b/c he was at a wedding (I thought the wedding was on Sat night). I told him that if he didn't want any calls to turn off his cellphone.

I called him this morning to confirm again and he said he would come at 8 p.m. but added "if you don't stop, you will sign your rights away to me". He threatened me. Now I'm afraid that he will have his Attorney write another letter saying I'm unstable and take the baby away from me. I'm not being unstable. He lied to me about the time he would be away. Five days without a father is way too much in my opinion. I cut my vacation short in November because I didn't want to be away from the baby for more than three days but he obviously doesn't feel the same.

Now I'm scared he will follow through and have his Attorney write letters saying I'm unstable and will try to take the baby away from me. The damage has been done, my mother says. Now what do I do? Call my Attorney? He ended up taking the baby back on Monday night but I don't know what he is going to do.

He registered for classes at "My Little Gym" before I could register. I'm trying to find a playgroup to take the baby but I work from home three days a week and in the office the other two when I don't have the baby. I can't put the baby in daycare until he is three according to my divorce paperwork because my EX is against daycare (I tried to fight it in Mediation but he wouldn't budge). Would this be in his favor if we were to go to court? I'm really scared that he will take custody away from me. We have joint custody right now and he doesn't pay CS because he doesn't work and I do.

I know I am asking alot but this is all new to me. Thanks!

Ilana

hey,
my name is trina. About the daycare. It is a good hting becouse in hleps the child get use to other kids, befor the child start's school. He will have a hard time getting the child becouse he does not work. It is the hardest thing in the world to prove a unfit mother. I wouldn't worry to much about.
Trina