Ok here it is. I hate my x.....dont most of us? i hate her calls cause it hurts my kids. i hate the fact that she can think that she can tell them on the phone she loves them and hasnt seen them in 2 years I hate that she trys to tell me what to do when they in trouble when she cant raise them herself. she trys to tell me how to do things. so easy to do when your not the one raising them. any one else go through this?

I know exactly what youa re talking about Dallas. My ex has no part of the day to day lives of my boys. No running back and forth beetween soccer and football. No music lessons, no chores, no homework-nothing. He is the first to criticise how I am raising them. I dont believe his "play dates" once or twice a month entitle him to an opinion. It gets really old when they are out running around with all kinds of freedom and social life while you are sitting in the stands waiting for soccer practice to end. They get all the freedom and want to be critcal of how you are doing it. UGH! I must be in a mood this morning...

ugh im always in a bad mood when i think about my x and the impact she has on my boys. been two years since sees seen them and they wont even reconize her is she comes to visit. the youngest was 4 months when she left. what a mom. god i love ppl like that.

Your children are very fortunate to have you! I cant imagine not seeing my boys for 2 years.

You have the best part, you have the relationship with the kids. I also get mad about my ex, who is not in the picture. But occasionally has to send an email or try to start drama in some way. Mine has never even met our daughter. She is 7 months old. He doesn't know her full name or anything about her. I don't know how people can walk away from their children.

I don't know how I would handle that....most likely i would have told my ex, not to bother to call at all...

Dallas
I can understand totally why you hate your ex. I just do not understand how anyone can not want contact with his/her children. My ex is coming to see my 31 month old and my 9 month old daughters this week for the first time since September. I am not going to help him with caring for them they are his for the day. We just have to do the best we can for the children. Good luck with everything.