and Olivia tells me Daddy didn't really want her to go to the sleepover so she wasn't sure if she should go. Maia says, "Yeah, he told her that on curriculum night." (he babysat here when I went)... apparently she wasn't being very easy to deal with but he actually said he didn't want her to come.

I asked about how he said it, etc. They all confirmed. I told Olivia if she didn't want to go she didn't have to and I wouldn't blame her. I told her if she decided not to that she may be upset when her sisters leave and that she may miss out on fun but that it was not ok for daddy to say something like that and that he would miss her, etc.

I'm sick of covering up these messy tracks.

Same night I was told... Here's the scenario. The girls came home last Weds (twins) and Thurs with library books from school. We'd got through most but not Delia's. I kept them out and in front of him held them up and said, Your library books are here maybe daddy can read them before bedtime if you have time or you can pick one as your story. He looked right at them. I'd said it earlier. Well when being put to bed Delia mentioned the books and that they hadn't been read and he said, "Well whose problem is that? Mommy's problem."

OK Clear Clear reminder why I don't use him as a babysitter... I should have just taken the girls with me.

I'm supposed to be trusting this man again, I really wanted to but how can I when these things are going on?

Hey Sue - reminder :and he said, "Well whose problem is that? Mommy's problem."


Sorry he is a poop!
Bad attitude problem! What a gem of a dad.
Needs a serious check in the karma... grrr.

soory but I am on a sugar high/rush of York Peppermint patties, and I guess it brings out the high energy low tolerance in me.
Time to drag out the kick boxing dummy again. sigh-
Tonight my workout 'dummy' I am subing in your ex.

LMAO! I just Love you on a sugarhigh Harmony

Can not trust him he is a jerk.My ex does this all the time.I usually try to make a special night when my ex picks at destiny.We do mud masks or nail polish,each others hair.I am sorry he is doing this.I know one time I just sent a letter saying that he had really upset destiny by badmouthing me.I told him it doesnt hurt me only your daughter.His opinion means nothing in my life cause I choose to not allow his nasty ways to hurt me any more,Hope this helps take care Gail

Yesssss the power is in me!

Positive chi
and Tina Turner cranked on the stereo!
This kick boxing dummy was the best money I spent since my divorce!
Keep being a great mom and the girls will be fine.

Well he says he didn't say a word of it.............


Olivia wrote him a note about hurting her feelings, I had to write for him to not get mad because she was worried he'd get mad. Hopefully he'll talk to her about it and apologize that it was said at all.

You know, if he could come out and say, "You know what I did say that and I am kicking myself for it and I can't believe what just saying that could do to my poor Olivia, I feel so badly and will tallk to her about it." But no, instead I get the usual "I never said anything like that." CRAP!