so my ex and I are "freinds" again, we hang out both newly single for the past 3-4 months, he says he loves me but wants to be single...he is VERY social..like tonight he is having aparty-
I wish I was invited but I knwo he is prob flirting with every chic..
I know I have to let him go but it is so hard...

help

I'd love to tell you that it gets easier, but it just gets different. I still love my Ex but I find ways to move on in life.

But try to think of it this way..if he loves you but wants to be single - he doesn't love you in the way you deserve to be loved by someone that you'd want to be in a relationship with.

not only will you do him a favor you will be doing yourself a bigger one. I may be going out on a limb here but Ive always thought if you ever truly loved someone you always will, you may find out that you are simply no longer in love with that person in time. I have always thought that for however long a relationship last that the love shared was the reward. say good by, saddle up and ride away dont give anyone the satisfaction of seeing you broke down in misery. good luck

Hey, just wanted to say your not alone. Im trying to figure this one out myself too. The thing is, is my ex doesnt love me and claims he never did. Which hurts so much cause I really loved him. Im trying my hardest and knowing that he is back with an ex of his is definetly helping me to slowly get over this loser. I just wish I could be free of him completly it would be so much easier to move on but in a little while we will have child together. Im trying to focus on that cause really this baby is more important. Also, I find that it helps to ask yourself if you could, would you really want to be with him knowing what he put you through and whether or not you will be able to trust him in the future? As much as i love and think i want this guy, I know in my heart that i would always wonder. Hope this helps and I am here if you want to chat.