Hi everyone, im pretty new to this site but haven't been able to find a simular question so i hope i can get some feedback. Thanks.
My situation is this: im 7 months pregnant with my first child. I have a final restraining order on the father. I live in NJ and he lives in PA with his mother. Im thinking i might have to move out of state when my daughter is born with family because of financial reasons. Since he doesn't even live in NJ can he fight my leaving the state???? I want to work everything out the best way possible but im thinking i should get a lawyer because he will not reason with me on ANY level. I do know he wants to be in her life because he still has hopes we will get back together..this will not happen because of his alcholic violence. I actually have to go back to court soon because he called me up drunk recently (violation). Anyway i guess my question is if any knows what steps I need to take i would appreciate any advice, im so lost and confused...Thanks!

you should talk to a caseworker at a women's center or shelter. if you are granted a permanent injunction and are NOT married you may be able to move away and get help with relocation expenses. does he know where your family lives? you would have to get a new protection order in that area which could be a bit of a catch 22. if they serve him with the injunction they may list your address so he knows where he's supposed to avoid. if he doesnt know where you are thats good if you can keep it that way. Please talk to someone who specializes in this. I know firsthand how frightening this is. Take care.