Hi, my name is Winnie and I am 16 years old. I'll be 17 in November. I am currently pregnant. I don't know exactly how far along I am, but I'll find out next time I talk to my doctor. I just got my first ultrasound on Tuesday - I got to see my healthy lil peanut!

Anyways, I'm single. The father of the baby became an a$$hole. At first he kept saying "I'll be there for you no matter what" and then it went to "I want to give the baby up for adoption" and then he became really immature so I broke up with him. He hasn't called. He has showed no interest of the baby whatsoever. It really sucks. I'm really stressed out because of him. It really doesn't seem like he's going to take responsibility. He keeps saying "I don't know, we'll see when the time comes" So obviously, it is a possiblity he's not going to take responsibility. Grr, he's so stupid, immature, and irresponsible, not to mention AN A$$HOLE. He makes me so mad. Seriously, one time, I ended up slapping him twice and punching him in the face because of his stupidity.

I need some advice. It's so hard to forget about him. I mean, I really don't care if he doesn't like me or whatever, but as long as he's going to be there for his baby. But NO, he has showed NO INTEREST.

- Winnie

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Originally posted by ExplicitDreams:
[qb]Hi, my name is Winnie and I am 16 years old. I'll be 17 in November. I am currently pregnant. I don't know exactly how far along I am, but I'll find out next time I talk to my doctor. I just got my first ultrasound on Tuesday - I got to see my healthy lil peanut!

Anyways, I'm single. The father of the baby became an a$$hole. At first he kept saying "I'll be there for you no matter what" and then it went to "I want to give the baby up for adoption" and then he became really immature so I broke up with him. He hasn't called. He has showed no interest of the baby whatsoever. It really sucks. I'm really stressed out because of him. It really doesn't seem like he's going to take responsibility. He keeps saying "I don't know, we'll see when the time comes" So obviously, it is a possiblity he's not going to take responsibility. Grr, he's so stupid, immature, and irresponsible, not to mention AN A$$HOLE. He makes me so mad. Seriously, one time, I ended up slapping him twice and punching him in the face because of his stupidity.

I need some advice. It's so hard to forget about him. I mean, I really don't care if he doesn't like me or whatever, but as long as he's going to be there for his baby. But NO, he has showed NO INTEREST.

- Winnie[/qb]

listen darling i know exactly what you are going through and i'm not gonna sugar coat it it is tough but for this moment now you have to pull your strenght out of nowhere and worry about youself and your baby.remember the baby feels everything that you do so stressing out will only harm any ways will stressing out about it make him change his asshole ways-no although it's super hard try not to think about it i find that keeping myself occupied when i went through it was way easier than dwelling on it.and you can make it as a single mother if it comes to that a lot of guys get really scared too.but it should be a happy moment not a sad one indulge yourself in your pregnancy and think of how great it is to be a mommy to someone and better your life and mind set without negative people like him around.think of it as a gift someone left you althogh it doesn't feel that way now trust me you will soon see that he is the one loosing out big times what a shame for him to miss out on the wonderful thing that is parenthood. kepp your head up be strong and you will feel wonderful about it in the future when you have done it alone.i'm 24 and my baby is 3 yrs old and i am a very happy being a singlre mother.the most disappointing thing is getting your child all nice and looking beautiful to see their father that never shows up they don't deserve people like that around them it leaves big scars.you will survive!

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Originally posted by ExplicitDreams:
[qb]Hi, my name is Winnie and I am 16 years old. I'll be 17 in November. I am currently pregnant. I don't know exactly how far along I am, but I'll find out next time I talk to my doctor. I just got my first ultrasound on Tuesday - I got to see my healthy lil peanut!

Anyways, I'm single. The father of the baby became an a$$hole. At first he kept saying "I'll be there for you no matter what" and then it went to "I want to give the baby up for adoption" and then he became really immature so I broke up with him. He hasn't called. He has showed no interest of the baby whatsoever. It really sucks. I'm really stressed out because of him. It really doesn't seem like he's going to take responsibility. He keeps saying "I don't know, we'll see when the time comes" So obviously, it is a possiblity he's not going to take responsibility. Grr, he's so stupid, immature, and irresponsible, not to mention AN A$$HOLE. He makes me so mad. Seriously, one time, I ended up slapping him twice and punching him in the face because of his stupidity.

I need some advice. It's so hard to forget about him. I mean, I really don't care if he doesn't like me or whatever, but as long as he's going to be there for his baby. But NO, he has showed NO INTEREST.

- Winnie[/qb]

this is the one who just wrote i forgot to give you my e-mail address if you want to talk about anything at all good or bad e-mail is bodytherapy2003*yahoo.com hope to hear from you soon.

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Originally posted by ExplicitDreams:
[qb]Hi, my name is Winnie and I am 16 years old. I'll be 17 in November. I am currently pregnant. I don't know exactly how far along I am, but I'll find out next time I talk to my doctor. I just got my first ultrasound on Tuesday - I got to see my healthy lil peanut!

Anyways, I'm single. The father of the baby became an a$$hole. At first he kept saying "I'll be there for you no matter what" and then it went to "I want to give the baby up for adoption" and then he became really immature so I broke up with him. He hasn't called. He has showed no interest of the baby whatsoever. It really sucks. I'm really stressed out because of him. It really doesn't seem like he's going to take responsibility. He keeps saying "I don't know, we'll see when the time comes" So obviously, it is a possiblity he's not going to take responsibility. Grr, he's so stupid, immature, and irresponsible, not to mention AN A$$HOLE. He makes me so mad. Seriously, one time, I ended up slapping him twice and punching him in the face because of his stupidity.

I need some advice. It's so hard to forget about him. I mean, I really don't care if he doesn't like me or whatever, but as long as he's going to be there for his baby. But NO, he has showed NO INTEREST.

- Winnie[/qb]

Hey Winnie,
Im 15 and preganet by the time i have the baby I will have just turned 16. The daddy of my baby is also an asshole he used to tell me he would be there for the baby but then all of a sudden he just said he siisnt want nothing to do with the baby or me. I know what your going through Im here if you want to talk you can email me at soon_to_be_teen_mommy_16*yahoo.com!