I am 17 and a single mother. I left the father at 3 months along because we were not getting along anymore. He knows I had my son, but has not called to help. I'm not upset about that though, I just have a hard time talking my friends. I barely talk to anyone, but when I do I seem to have nothing in common with them. I need other mothers to talk to who can relate and want to make friends who understand.

HI! I CAN SOME WHAT RELATE.. I GOT PREGNANT WHEN I WAS 14 AND ME AND HER FATHER ARE STILL TOGETHER IT HAS BEEN REALLY ROCKY AND HARD.. SHE IS NOW 17 MONTHS OLD AND THE JOY OF OUR LIVES.. IT IS REALLY HARD BECAUSE HE HAS ACCEPTED SOME RESPONSILBILTY OF HER BUT I STILL CARRY THE WHOLE LOAD HE PLAYS SPORTS BUT I DONT BECAUSE THERE WOULD BE NOBODY THERE TO TAKE CARE OF HER.. I UNDERSTAND WHEN YOU SAY THAT YOU REALLY DONT HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH YOUR FRIENDS.. WHEN I AM AT SCHOOL I AM VERY SOCIAL BUT WHEN I GO HOME ITS ALL SKYLAR... EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT.. SKYLARJADESMOMMIE@YAHOO.COM

GOOD LUCK

hi!

I am 22... but thats no difference. I know what you mean! I dont have any friends because I really just moved to florida 3 years ago. And its really hard to make friends. Friends from my old town really dont talk to me except one, but she is married and is busy.
I too left the father at 3 months. I haven't heard from him since and really could care less. He was a loser. I know how lonely it feels. But there really is nothing but keep trudging on. I have meet wonderful people here on this forum that I still keep in touch with!
Are you still pregnant or do you have the little one with you now? I am right now 31 weeks. I am getting closer and scared. Are you still in school? What do you plan for you future? I still live with my parents. Wouldn't be able to make it without them. I am also still in school. I am studying to be an RN!
Well! I would really like to get to know you! You sound very nice. And I could use someone to talk to!

SO PM me if you wanna talk!
TAKE care!

hey, i know where you're coming from. i got preg at 15 and left his dad soon after (he was unfit). i don't have that many friends either (except for ashley HEY!!!) good luck

I totally understand, none of my old friends never come around anymore, and what's really bad is that they are also teen parents. but they still continue to do the things they did before they became parents(like drinking and drugs) But I stopped all that, so now they don't want anything to do with me

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Originally posted by tiffany*michelle:
[qb]I am 17 and a single mother. I left the father at 3 months along because we were not getting along anymore. He knows I had my son, but has not called to help. I'm not upset about that though, I just have a hard time talking my friends. I barely talk to anyone, but when I do I seem to have nothing in common with them. I need other mothers to talk to who can relate and want to make friends who understand.[/qb]

Girl, I feel your pain. No one can really relate to what you're going through until they've experinced it! I'm 19 with 3 kids; 2 boys (4&3) and a girl (6months). Anything you need to talk about I'm here.

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Originally posted by tiffany*michelle:
[qb]I am 17 and a single mother. I left the father at 3 months along because we were not getting along anymore. He knows I had my son, but has not called to help. I'm not upset about that though, I just have a hard time talking my friends. I barely talk to anyone, but when I do I seem to have nothing in common with them. I need other mothers to talk to who can relate and want to make friends who understand.[/qb]

I am 16 with a 16 month old. Me and clays father were never really together we were at a party and u know how that goes I am now getting straiht A's in school and have the love of my life Clay!! it's hard now but trust me it gets better if u ever need to talk just e-mail me at nannyskids_2000*yahoo.com