when i was 18 and pregnant,I did not show until i was 7 months pregnant, i guess thats why i hid it so well. I couldnt tell my parents, they'd kill me...kick me out or force me to marry (so i thought) I had already graduated from highschool, was going to college,*a junior college* and working, so i never really saw my parents anyway. I lived with them, but when i wasnt working or at school i was with my then boyfriend. We were always together. but my mom knew.. she asked me one day and i lied and said no, that i wasnt stupid to get pregnant agian.. what a fool i was. but she knew.. its funny how they know. I was lucky, my baby was healthy, i didnt get any prenatel care until i was 8months, I was stupid for that. for sum reason i didnt wanna deal, i guess. I didnt want my baby.. i was happy, and i didnt wanna "screw up my life worse" but my baby.. she is my life, i love her soooooo much. We are always together. Its like she is my lil best friend u know. kids do that to you. they change you. I use to be this Chula from SD now look at me, ive changed. and i owe it to my babies. your babies are your life.. remember that!

It's amazing how many of us have similar stories! Although it was only my first time being pregnant, I did a lot of things like you. I didn't show until I was six and a half months pregnant and didn't get prenatal care until I was seven months pregnant. Although my family didn't know for a long time my mom also asked me and of course I lied. I felt so bad that I told my at the time boyfriend that we needed to tell our parents because I didn't want to lie to my mom. It's good to have a supportive mom. Going to full time, working part time, and being a full time mommy is definately a job! How old are you two? I have a 13 month old son who lights up my life. He definately changed my life for the better too!

You sound just like me. My little boy is the light of my life. And at first I didn't want to deal with the fact that I was pregnant. Now I just look at him sleeping or the way he smiles at me and realize that he is the love of my life. They are so prcious aren't they?