So after over coming telling my exs parent about being pregnant things didnt seem to get much better. Today his mother said he didnt think the baby was his. So my family told her if thats what he belives then when the baby is born he can pay for a paternity test but that we did not have a doubt in our minds that it was his. Then tonight I got a call from my ex who hasnt talked to me in 2 months. All of a sudden hes giving the baby medical inssurance and clothes etc. And thinks we need to make decisions. First thing he says is I dont want my daughters name to be Olivia. I want it to be Julia. Then he doesnt like who Ive picked to be the god mother. The n wants to know if I wanna hang out with him and a mutual friend later on. I went (probably stupidly but its hard when there a child involved) and he didnt say much of anything except he was tired. I only stayed maybe 15 mins and left. Im Soooooooooo confused any advice from anyone would be wonderful. Thanks

Hello Ms19single
Im sorry that things are going this way for you however you have total control of this situation..it's a normal feeling to be semi confused but..you can't allow him to play head games... you guys need to talk and get everything out in the open...tell him how you feel and listen to him as well this way you will know what to expect from him.... in terms of how his family feels this is a battle not worth fighting and you need to take care of yourself and stay as stress free as possible while you are with child..things can turn around but if they don't you have to stay strong and do the best that you can for your new family....hope I helped..