I for one am glad this is coming out. Although it didn't bother me so much, nice to know it is almost completed. Looking at my siggy pic you can clearly see I am living raising 3 girls of about the same age. The flags were there early on, especially having experienced multiple pregnancy and now raising them.....

I've never had multiples, and she never really told us how much her kids weighed, so the red flag wasn't there for me. When she told me the names of her "kids" is when the first flag went up. Only because I was a major fan of Charmed myself. Then she couldn't keep her story straight about anything. She could relate to being a single mom raising her kids on her own, supposedly - yet she lived with her parents. Or her boyfriend. Or wherever she decided in that post. I admit I was stupid to believe any of it but I was niave and just HOPING there was someone out there going through something similar and has turned out alright. I guess that was the main reason it went on so long.

We all hope to find someone that would be an inspiration us... know what I mean?

I also have a story that seems a bit "fake" .. I guess you could say. I don't know. Pregnant and married at 15. Divorced (or separated, ******* won't sign for a divorce) at 17. Another kid at 19. Another one on the way due in September. Of course that sounds nuts. Who would do that? lol I got pregnant on birth control all three times. Most people don't believe that either. So I really just hate calling out "fakes" because the "red flags" might be there in my story too. Know what I'm saying? She's obviously full of it but I would hate someone to think that about me.

For the record ladies, the moderators are aware of the stated issues and after discussion it was deemed that as the author and thread are seemingly harmless and we have received but one, can't even call it a complaint, more of a comment, that we will leave the thread as other posters in the thread may have posted info useful to some members.

Well isent this a surprize! i was the only one that questioned the reallity of her post that seamed disconected from the real strugles of a single mother, "Oh I just front ended my new (chevy tahoe)" but I was beaten down by mods and her supporters, so I let it ride. Now after all her accomplishments in school that really show this girl is collage material, Unlike the rest of the poor young single moms that blew their educations that post pics of their kids,when asked to post her kids she tells us she dosent know how to post a photo of the baby jesus we have all been waiting 9 months for to plop out!or the three girls either.

Absolutely... and no, there was no real harm which is why there was really never a need to make any issue out of it. Figured now that it was out in part I'd post my thoughts on the whole "scenario"

Holly/Heather, whomever you really are, only wishing you the best and hope that whatever caused/es you to do this that you can get to the bottom of it and enjoy your life as it really is.

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Originally posted by bif lover:
[qb] Well isent this a surprize! i was the only one that questioned the reallity of her post that seamed disconected from the real strugles of a single mother, "Oh I just front ended my new (chevy tahoe)" but I was beaten down by mods and her supporters, so I let it ride. Now after all her accomplishments in school that really show this girl is collage material, Unlike the rest of the poor young single moms that blew their educations that post pics of their kids,when asked to post her kids she tells us she dosent know how to post a photo of the baby jesus we have all been waiting 9 months for to plop out!or the three girls either. [/qb]

I just joined these boards so I wasn't among those that attacked you. But I don't get the statement "unlike the rest of the poor young single moms that blew their educations" .... If I understand that right you're saying since we are young single moms we are uneducated? Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Not worth the discussion, Sadie

Sorry , I should hve used the words "high percentage" because it is! actually most single moms are more responcible than those that are not, because they have to be! anything ell,s you want to nit pick about!

Actually I was enjoying her story, Im just waiting for the magic words "oh god I think im pregnant again".

wait... so she's not really a single mother?

Wow you've been through alot!! I have a friend that was..or...still is in such a sticky situation. She's 20 now, but at 14 she gave birth to her twin girls Abby and Anna. I helped her out later on, but at 16 she got pregnant with her baby boy, Charlie. She's now pregnant once again. If you are pregnant, don't let it ruin your life. Cope with it the best you can. My friend (her name is Karlie) had a daycare job. She worked at a daycare with her two workmates and brought her kids with her there. That's how she managed to take care of her kids and make money at the same time. LOL well I wish you the best of luck, though..!
~Janinne~