hey melissa thanks for getting back at me. it's nice to know there are others out there, you know? what happened with you and the father if that's not too nosy? believe it or not, the father of mine already has a five year old daughter that's his life and he's a wonderful father. however, he's going through a divorce and is scared that this baby will make him lose custody of his daughter. so, he said he wants nothing to do with me or the baby. i almost had an abortion for him and decided he just wasn't that important. i just couldn't go through with it. plus, my parents are supporting me so that helps. on a happier note, i find out on monday if i'm having a boy or a girl. i can't wait!!! well, just wanted to say thanks for the support and i hope we can keep talking (and sharing sob stories)

~michelle