Hello. Today while I was doing the grocery shopping I met a guy in the grocery store. I had the twins with me and he had to have heard them calling me "mommy", so he knows I am a mom. We helped eachother with the shopping,and we had fun. I haven't had that much fun in a long time. And it was grocery shopping! Well he ended up asking me for my number, and I told him I would give him a call instead. Now I am contemplating calling him or not. What should we do? I haven't dated AT ALL since their father. and that was before these guys were born. I am only 16, and my last date was when I just turned 14. (I remeember that day because it was the day I told thwir daddy I was pregnant.)

HELP!

hi this jessica

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Originally posted by ConceteAngel:
[qb]Hello. Today while I was doing the grocery shopping I met a guy in the grocery store. I had the twins with me and he had to have heard them calling me "mommy", so he knows I am a mom. We helped eachother with the shopping,and we had fun. I haven't had that much fun in a long time. And it was grocery shopping! Well he ended up asking me for my number, and I told him I would give him a call instead. Now I am contemplating calling him or not. What should we do? I haven't dated AT ALL since their father. and that was before these guys were born. I am only 16, and my last date was when I just turned 14. (I remeember that day because it was the day I told thwir daddy I was pregnant.)

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Hey there, maybe you should try and gat to know this guy a little over the phone. It seems very obvious that he is okay with your children. I say phone him, what have you got to loose. You haven't invested that much into this and maybe it would do you some good to get out of the house a little bit. I must commend you for being able to look after twins at such a young age. I only have one and I am 24 and I have a hard time. I have her dad on her life so that makes a huge difference, but I didn't at first so I know the frustration. Does he see your kids? I sure hope. Any how if you ever need anything just let me know. Jayme

[HI THIS IS JESSICA WHAT IS YOUR EMAIL ADD?I DONT KNOW I THINK U SHOULD CALL HIM HE SEEMS LIKE A NICE GUY AND IF HE KNOWS THE TWINS ARE YOURS THAT IS EVEN BETTER GIVE HIM A CALL U NEVER KNOW .QUOTE]Originally posted by ConceteAngel:
[qb]Hello. Today while I was doing the grocery shopping I met a guy in the grocery store. I had the twins with me and he had to have heard them calling me "mommy", so he knows I am a mom. We helped eachother with the shopping,and we had fun. I haven't had that much fun in a long time. And it was grocery shopping! Well he ended up asking me for my number, and I told him I would give him a call instead. Now I am contemplating calling him or not. What should we do? I haven't dated AT ALL since their father. and that was before these guys were born. I am only 16, and my last date was when I just turned 14. (I remeember that day because it was the day I told thwir daddy I was pregnant.)

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Hello again. Well I did call him. He turned out to be really nice and we have plans for lunch in two days. I will let you all know how that goes. He's really quiet on the phone though! He was not that quiet in person when I met him, but if he ends up being that quiet I am gonna go nuts. But I talk alot on the phone, so I guess that is maybe why. I do need to get out of the house, and he even said he is going to pay for lunch! I mean, I know the tradition is the guy pays, but how often does it actually happen anymore? Well I got to run. Tootles.

[hi this is jessica that is good are u going to bring the twins with u .do not worry i think it will go good.write back when u get a chance.QUOTE]Originally posted by ConceteAngel:
[qb]Hello again. Well I did call him. He turned out to be really nice and we have plans for lunch in two days. I will let you all know how that goes. He's really quiet on the phone though! He was not that quiet in person when I met him, but if he ends up being that quiet I am gonna go nuts. But I talk alot on the phone, so I guess that is maybe why. I do need to get out of the house, and he even said he is going to pay for lunch! I mean, I know the tradition is the guy pays, but how often does it actually happen anymore? Well I got to run. Tootles.[/qb][/QUOTE]

Okay, we went to lunch today. It was just a lunch date, so it did not interfere with anything for me. Usually I am at school at that time. He picked me up at the school and we walked to a coffee shop. It was really fun. We talked about anything and everything. He asked me if the little ones were really mine, and I told him yes. And he seemed okay with it. We had a blast just laughing and talking. He cracked me up so much. He asked if he could have my number and I gave it to him. I hope he calls. He seems liek a really nice guy from what I knwo so far. I got to go now. Tootles.