i fell pregnant at 17. i turned 18 and 8 months later i had my daughter. i know what you are going through as my baby's daddy wasnt around from the begining. alot of people gave me lots of advice (some welcome some unwelcome) but what stuck with me is what my mum said. "When ever you are feeling down and worried or scared remember what you are doing. You are growing a real person inside you and that in itself is a miracle." that lil quote helped me through so much. i really hope everything goes ok for you. goodluck.