There is something majorly wrong with him.

He is swinging from ignoring you to saying he will be there for you to stating how much he will give you to this mess...

Distance yourself.
Go hug a family member, a friend, look in the mirror and take a deep breath and tell yourself
I am worth so much better than to be spoken to like that.

i did start thinking about names today. i know its still early but i think its fun. i came up with for a girl dakota nycole. and a boy zachary michael or xander cole

Traci - those are beatiful names

if i remember right dakota means friend. lol so it will be my little friend

Very nice. Where is Xander Cole from? I like that too.

i dunno i was layin in bed and it just came to me

Traci do you live with your Parents right now ?

yea

Have you told them what is going on and how you are feeling and what you have been thinking?

they dont even know that im pregnant

oh That sure is alot of pressure on yourself right now.
That sucks.
Well no wonder you are so stressed out.

Does any one besides the father know?

a few of my "friends"

Traci...SNAP OUT OF IT! Don't let that #$%^bag bring you down! He is only trying to do it to get you on his "level" (which is lower than a cockroach on his belly), and you are ABOVE that!!

You have the strength and the support of all of us here, PLUS you have the greatest gift of all - a child on the way!

Stop. Think. And whatever you do, don't answer the phone! Take it off the hook, and keep coming back here.

Okay, well at least there are those you can talk too. If you start to have serious dark thoughts pick up the phone and call the crisis hotline.

You are 18 and have so many great and beautiful things ahead of you.

This time right now is crummy with him treating you poorly, but trust me and all those here you can and will get through it.
I think if I remember correctly you will be starting a new job soon right?
That's a good thing, and you know your family loves you.

I am 37 years old. I just realized if I had had a child at your age she would be a year older than you are now.
That would be cool because I still am having a great time and my child would be college age now.

This guy's only trying to affect you in any way he can. That's why he's going back and forth - he's trying to feel you out and see what pushes your buttons the most. Just don't let him get to you. Shrug him off. He won't change who he is, but he may get tired of bugging you if he figures out it's doing no good.

And get over your feelings for him because he obviously has none for you. (Sorry if that seems harsh or I sound like a B**ch, but it had to be said. I wish someone would have put it that bluntly to me back-in-the-day.) There are far better men out there, they just take a little longer to find.