I'm so sorry to hear your story shocked. First of all, no one expects you to raise this child alone. He helped you create this child, so he should be financially responsible for him/her. I would seriosly consider filing child support; Children are friggin expensive!!! Ignore the things that he'll say about you wanting his money because that's just a game that "baby's daddy's" play.

There's nothing to be afraid of. Once you have your child; you'll learn so much about yourself and do things that you never thought you could do. Childbirth is one of the most empowering things ever. If you believe in God, remember that he will never put more on you than you can bear.

My best advice to you is don't stress yourself out! It could hurt you and the baby. Forget about the dad right now and focus on staying healthy; he'll still be there once you have the baby and then you can decide your plan of action as far as legal matters.

As far as men not wanting you, that's just not true. From my experience, real men (that being the key phrase) find mothers more attractive. So you'll attract a totally different breed of male. Being a mother will help you filter out the riff-raff a little better.