hi I am new to this site I have 3 beautiful children ages 10, 6, and 2. Lately I am constently thinking about having another baby. My youngest is turning 3 this month and when my first two turned three I got pregnant shortly after(not planned but wanted of course) I cant ask people who know me about this because they would think I am crazy. I wont lie we are struggling now but the kids have every thing they need a house food clothes toys I know that I could provide for another baby(it would be same father as other 3 and I accept the fact he wouldnt be involved)When I was younger I said I wanted to be done having babies by the time I was 25 and I had my youngest before I turned 25 but I dont feel done I read on another site that God gives you the desire to want more children I bring that up because I feel like Im being incredably selfish wanting another one I have 3 healthy kids whom I didnt plan and what if Im punished for getting pregnant on purpose? please feel free to tell me how crazy I am sorry so long I didnt realize I had given this so much thought :grouphug:

Hmm. lol Well if you're struggling you shouldn't have another child on purpose. I got pregnant on accident by someone I wasn't even really with. He isn't involved (and neither is the father of my other children). I'm okay with that. BUT I would never go back and get pregnant on purpose. No way. I am going to have three kids and I've even considered giving this third up for adoption because I don't know if I can handle it. I'd definitely wait a while and hopefully the want of a baby will pass.

Do you have a relationship with the father? I'm not sure I understand because you said he isn't involved. (I just like to get all my info in line before I try and respondLOL)

I am completly single..no significant other or anything...I am financially stable but I want to adopt. The only problem is it costs so much to adopt. I wish I could find someone who is having a baby who would sign the baby over to me. Does this sound selfish??? I mean if the person is giving the baby up anyway....Adoption agancies wont let me adopt yet because Im 22. They dont want women under 25 can adopt. I have lots of family who would be happy to help if I need a sitter or whatever.

I dont know of anyone I could talk to either. I mean about getting a baby. Plus it costs so much to have a baby by donor.

Hello,
I do not think you are crazy for wanting another baby and I completely understand because I am longing for another baby as well. Your situation seems more likely because you have the father of your other children whereas I have been single for almost 2 years Sometimes we cannot help the situation we are in, but having children is a blessing and it would be sad for someone to not be able to experience this love and blessing.
Best of luck!
TJ