Im new to SPV. I come fr Indonesia n have a 13 months baby boy. My son is mixed with african-american. but he was born here in my country. Im not married or together w the baby's irresponsible father. im so scare that someday my son is takin away from me. can anybody help me to give an information abt it. thanks

Jazzy

First of all, welcome to the site! I haven't been here that long, but this place has changed my world! You're in the right place for support!

Why would you think that your son would be taken away from you? Is there a law pertaining to that in Indonesia since you're not with the father?

Why do you think your son will be taken away from you?? Do you have standards in your culture that would cause someone to take your son from you.

I bet that is one beautiful baby, I can only imagine what a gorgeous person he will grow up to be.

Don't be afraid to share more of your story with us, that is what we are here for. Support. This place has really helped with release some of my angers, fears and sadness. Try it, you might find some comfort in telling your story.

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Originally posted by bisha:
[qb] First of all, welcome to the site! I haven't been here that long, but this place has changed my world! You're in the right place for support!

Why would you think that your son would be taken away from you? Is there a law pertaining to that in Indonesia since you're not with the father? [/qb]

Thank u for your time to drop a few lines abt me. Well, i love my baby so much that sometime i think the worse thing that might happen to me n my baby.

Jazzy

We all tend to think the worst from time to time, but you can't let it control you. You have to get on with raising your child, knowing that you're doing your best. Obstacles will pop up down the road and most of the time there is really nothing you can do about it until you get there. Everything will work out in the end