Just found myself alone and pregnant (again; this was the case when I was pregnant w/ my son) with absolutely NO support system! My family wants nothing to do with me, aside from my biological aunt. Having never met the woman, I can't really ask her to be there for me. So here I am, 7 mos pregnant, homeless, the baby's father and I just split up for good yesterday (he's emotionally and occasionally physically abusive) without a soul to turn to. Anybody out there?

-A

Were out here msm...and there are alot who are in the same boat as you, being pregonant and alone. You did the right thing breaking it off with your boyfriend being abusive, and "occasionally" is one time too many! Don't put up with it...it will happen again and it only gets worse. (sorry to sound so harsh, but that is my opinion and I speak from experience)

You have come to the right place if you are looking for support. We may not be there physicaly but we are here when you need us. :welcome: :huggies:

Thanks I know it's going to be hard; I have considered adoption, but I don't think I have the strength to go through that again! (I gave up my son to open adoption). It's hard not to feel like a failure at 27. Still homeless, still unable to raise my children....

hey just wanted to say that i feel your pain,but i wanted you to know that ther is help out there other then family and friends(specking from experince) i'm sorry you are alone and hurting but you need to get into a domestic violence shelter,they will help you with a place to stay,help you get your own,and help you and the baby get established.trust me it aint easy,i was even a little embarrsed when i first moved in but i made life time friends and all the other mothers embrased me and my son,for we were all going through the same thing!!!!!! think about it and feel free to IM me at anytime...good luck! :lovesfv: