I live in the state of Maryland and I filed for child support and was awareded a pretty good amount per month. It has been three months since the judgement and I have yet to see a check everyother week. I have been in constant contact with childsupport enforcement. They keep giving me the run around. OH he found a new place of employment and we sent to his new employers the wage lean forms to be filled out and given back to us a month ago. That is not helping me now. So I take it that I will not see a check this month. Child support enforcement told me to call back within a few days and they will sent me the papers to back to court. I dont know if it is worth it anymore. Any suggestions! How do you deal with the constant fustration.

Hello, single mom of 3 young girls..
YOu know I have heard people working the system and it working out for them..

But it sure didn't help me.. I went through them and my ex kept quiting his job moving ect.. I think they even finally gave up..
here we are 7yrs later...
He finally started calling again saying that he really wants to try to help.. I at first wasn't trusting and contacted the child informent agency and gave them his new address and where I thought he worked.. they still haven't done any thing about it.. Now he pays but its on his own... He owes me like 13,000 in back support and who knows they might still be staking it on???
But I deceided a long time ago it wasn't worth the frustration.. I gave up fighting for money I had my girls and that all that mattered... He can never make up the lost time he caused with them, just for money(trying to dodge system..) But it is nice now that he is paying..
There is alot of support through the goverment as fare as helping financially, with health care. daycare ect. ITs alot easier than trying to fight with your ex once it gets to this point.. Good luck to you.. I hope all works out.


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