Well kind of. We still live under the same roof. The hammer came down (7 months ago) while we were living out of the country for half a year. We came back to the states and have bought one house and will be looking for a second.

I want to live very close (not across the street, but within walking distance). I've searched my sole for why I want to do this, and I think it would be great for the kids. My wife is in agreement with this idea. We're dong joint custody, and we maintain a great deal of respect for each other. I think we can be friends going forward so long as we can get through the money issues (which are tense, but we are working throuhg them...probably have to go with mediation for some of it). I think it can work to live close by for the kids. Does anyone have experience with this type of arrangement?

Hi Mr wizard and welcome to the site. There is a great group of people here.
I think it is great that you two are able to stay close living wise for the kids. There lives are going to change enough as is and you two being close will help make the transition so much easier.
I still have visitation with step kids and his ex does not live far, it is nice. The kids can walk or ride there bikes over if they want to. No long distance calls and we see each other often at town functions and so forth. Like tonight we went to a football game at the school and all the kids got to see each other and spend some time.
Sounds like you are handling things very diplomatically and that is awesome. Keep up the good work.
I hope you enjoy the site. Feel free to jump in any time the friends are fine.
God bless.

I applaud you for focusing on the best interests of the kids rather than being selfish as it seems so many people are these days. Your children are truly blessed to have such wonderful parents who care so much about them. They'll feel more at home in your home (many kids are simply "visitors" in one parent's home as opposed to "residents") because they'll have the freedom to come at any time without any inconvenience to anyone. This is a win-win situation for everyone involved!

Hi! I'm new to the sight. I have a three year old boy and my husband and I are getting ready to separate. I will be moving out with my son. Any suggestions on making the transition as easy as possible? My husband and I are not on bad terms, just a little awkward right now. We both agreed that we would hang out, maybe catch dinner once in a while with our son. Would this just confuse him?

It is really great that you are doing this for your kids. I tried to get my ex to let our kids stay in the house where they were and he and I would trade back and forth. Of course for a control freak this was not his cup of tea especially since it was my idea. I guess I am saying Right on you both should be proud of doing what is best for your children.