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Originally posted by itcomesback2u:
......Anyway, I am going through with the divorce...I just have to deal with dealing with the guilt.

Everyone does to some extent...hang in there.

Hey Steph,

Be easy on yourself, you are making a hard decision. Remember, it doesn't really matter what anybody else thinks outside of your family... you gotta live with your decision.

I'm glad the board lets you know that you're not alone with those feelings and issues you're going through.

Thanks Tess,

I'm tryin....they werent kiddin when they said it would be a roller coaster...

I just don't see me going back...I have come so far over the past couple of years without him...better in a lot of ways.

steph

I know I’m responding to this a little late but my 2cents anyway

Neither I nor anyone here can tell you if your divorce is wrong only you can decide that…

Quite frankly I believe the only reasons divorce could be wrong if it was all a heat of the moment

Quite frankly since you think I’m a player take my advice on this. A cheater stays a cheater. A liar stays a liar you have to ask yourself why they do it….For most people it’s the small thrill of sneaking and getting away….

Since I don’t remember reading the specifics of your situation 90% of divorce ends with these 2 things… the other 10 is money…

Don’t stress my issue has always been to honest (yes ladies to much honesty is a bad thing careful what you wish for) and to trusting. To be honest if I wasn’t so trusting I do believe my kids mother and I would have lasted longer

In the long run you will find someone to hold you through the night and whisper sweet nothings in your ear. Don’t stress life moves forward and no matter how hard you try so don’t you

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Don’t stress my issue has always been to honest (yes ladies to much honesty is a bad thing careful what you wish for) and to trusting. To be honest if I wasn’t so trusting I do believe my kids mother and I would have lasted longer

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I'm sorry, but someone slap me in the head, because I do not believe there is something called TOO much honesty or TOO much trusting.
One is either honest, or they are not. Period...there is no measurement of it. It is, or it isn't. So I have to disagree with your post bishop, I think that is an opinion based on your own fears.

I know men who are married and honest and trustworthy and thus why they are still married to the same honest and trustworthy wives...but it takes more than trust and honesty to make a relationship work.


So to get back to the person who started this thread...feeling disappointement going through a divorce is a normal feeling, unfortunately it is not pleasant.

You have one life to live, to live your purpose and be happy....it is really how you chose to live, and you owe it to your kids to make the right choice for YOU.

Hope that helped.