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At A loss for Words - NOT!
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OMG there is a Canuk in teh room, there is a Canuk in the room besides me..

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Writing a guide for personal change, fullment and discovery for children with dead beat parents. If you as a parent, or the child have a story to share, would love to include it.
 
Posts: 2611 | Location: Ottawa | Registered: 14 April 2007Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Posted 10 November 2007 05:04 PM by "Glenn the Survivor"

I was there, been through that. I was living with my EX wife in Pa when she kicked me out of the house (Well, I came home to some clothes on the porch and a note) After a short period of time, not sure if it was Monday or the following weekend as it was March of 2005, she gave me our children who were 1 and infant at the time. Then 2 weeks after kicking me out I took her to dinner for her birthday where she admitted to me that she cheated on me with someone who I dispised (was a friend, he got psychotic so I told him to leave me life so he used my ex wife to get back at me). Well ... that day I wrote up a contract and named it Divorce Agreement. In there it stated I have physical custody of the children, she had visitation rights. Then it stated that if this man was to EVER be near our children again, she would automatically forfeit her legal and physical rights to the children. This contract I learned was binding as long as I had it notorized!

To this day I still have custody of the older children and she does have custody of the 2 younger children that were born after seperation (She was pregnant with one while we were seperating then a year later we tried to work things out, didn't work out when she tried to have me killed by the man she slept with behind my back). Needless to say when she showed a lawyer the contract, she was horrified and scared because she stated that I convinced her to sign her rights away.

It is legal and free to do if you have a computer. I would have a witness present as my ex tried to tell a judge I forced her to sign it (my mother witnessed it and AIM messages stated she admitted that I was a better parent and that was why she signed the paperwork willingly).


I just want to set everyone straight on this guy.

It was HE who threw his then-pregnant wife out on the street with barely the clothes on her back.
It was HE who repeatedly committed perjury so that he could sustain custody of his two older children.
His now-ex-wife never attempted to have him killed.
Glenn is about as bad at writing up legal documents as he was at being a father to his children. He can't even spell simple words and use proper grammar.
After his ex showed her lawyer the "contract", her lawyer laughed at it. Glenn never had it notarized nor signed by any witnesses (it wasn't even dated).
Not long after the divorce, Glenn fathered two MORE children with his live-in babysitter - a young 18-year-old girl fresh out of high school who's a decade younger than he. She now has full physical custody of their two children but there has been no word of any legal pursuit of support on her part.

However, all this was a year ago. Here's the current timeline:

Dec 2007: His ex-wife took all 4 children over the holidays pending a custody hearing the next month.
Jan 2008: Courts awarded full physical custody of all four children to the ex-wife due to unsuitable living conditions in Glenn's trailer.
Mar 2008: A company called Five Star conducted a home inspection and observation session in both the ex's and Glenn's homes. The ex passed with flying colors. Glenn failed miserably; his trailer, noted the interviewer, had mouse feces all over the place, an opened paint can was in reach of the children next to an open window...and Glenn did nothing productive the entire time. He ignored his children, both attentively and affectionately while trashtalking his ex-wife to the interviewer. As a result, Five Star compared him to a "fourteen year old who is unable to cope" and recommended the court require 2 years' psychiatric evaluation and parenting courses with supervised visitation.
Jul 2008: Courts ordered Glenn to pay his ex about $700.00 per month in child support. Glenn was not working at this time.
Oct 2008: Courts reduced Glenn's monthly support payments to about $500.00 per month. He has yet to make any payments, although he is working.
Dec 2008: One year after the initial turnaround, Glenn is to be evicted from his trailer by the trailer park. Upon the eviction, the Board of Health condemned the trailer for unsafe living conditions.

Just wanted everyone to know the character of the person they may be taking advice from. In any situation where both parties have children, PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN FIRST!!!


If your mind isn't open, keep your mouth shut too.
 
Posts: 1 | Location: Anchorage, Alaska | Registered: 10 December 2008Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Don't know who you are and how you know Glenn but, he is no longer a member here anyway Cool Seems that we're just not that stupid here.


 
Posts: 4669 | Location: California | Registered: 15 January 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Sounds like the ex talking in third person. Man its not like that has never happend before here Roll Eyes.




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Posts: 2667 | Location: Reno, NV | Registered: 16 October 2005Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Well Justin it would seem that someone hijacked your thread . . . so back on you man . . .

I'm am sorry to hear about the situation you were put in and now, by the time I got to this post as I'm not here much anymore, it would seem you have your head back on straighter than before. I'm glad. I hope that everything works out for you.
 
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