Hello,
I was told about this site from a friend from AmericanBaby.*** they said that this was a good place to go if you're a newly single parent. Let me introduce myself, I'm Amy, 21 from Northwest Connecticut. I have a beautiful little son who is 4 months old, his name is Nicholas. His father and I broke up about a month ago, I've been in denial ever since and I'm really starting to feel the stab of pain and loneliness that comes with a breakup. I could really use a friend who knows what I'm going through and could help me out on how to get through this without killing myself, or HIM. Thanks.

Hi and you are most welcome to the site.You are no longer alone and feel free to vent.
We are like a huge family with ideas,suggestions,advice.and feel free to give advice if you find something that interests you.

Best Wishes and welcome,

Mark

Hi Amy,
Welcome to the site. I have not been here long myself. I hope you find some comfort and friendship here, as I have. Feel free to vent, ask and offer up advice.
Carla

Hi Amy,
Sorry to hear about your situation. I'm facing similar problems and would be more than happy to listen if you ever need to talk. I'm 25, 6 months pregnant with my first baby and have been broken up with my ex for about 5 months. I have been feeling the pain of the breakup and the fear of being a single mother. I'm not there yet, but if you ever need to vent about things, I hope I can be of help. Good luck with everything. I know how hard it can be to let go. Keep smiling, it will get better.

hi and welcome to the site. eveyrone here is really great. you'll make a lot friends here and find a ton of support as well.

i know the lonelness of a relationship ending. i just went through one a little while ago - not my sons father - and it hurt for so long. i'm better now. i got better when my son's father walked out on us before he was born and once again when my son was only 1yrs old.

if you ever need to talke send and email to me VTangel27*aol.***

things will get better and you will be able to look back on this a year from now and see why all this had happened.

smvt

hi! this is sanda . im 22 going 23 and have a 2 yr. old son. i feel the same way too before... especially when it was at that point like everythng seems so impossible and hopeless. but believe me, you can get over that after. sometimes, sometimes, depression are caused by the hormonal imbalance in our bodies especially when were pregnat. but believe me, i got sexier and i heard a lot of good impressions, well as well as bad ones too, on myself. i work fulltime now, soon to go back to school, and i am into a relationship which somehow is my BIG problem right now. if you wana here from me, pls feel free to ask.

welcome!
im sorry that things arent going as you planned but im sure thats bcs something better is instore to you. i know it doesnt feel like it now and it wont for awhile for if you really loved this person. my sons father and boyfriend, best friend of a couple years broke up with me while i was pregnant. we still keep in contact with a neutral standing. but thats hard!!! time heals all..gay to say but its really true. i know im not fully there yet and its been a year since he left but hes always still poked around or called so at times its fresh. you will only become stronger! now is a time for you and your child. my son is 5 months now and im trying to think of all the great things that are going to come my way. are you in school or going to go back? think of what can benefit YOU AND YOUR CHILD with out having to have the support of another...familys is key thought too they are the world to me and my son! surround yourself with people you can mirror and see yourself in. all the things you are and give are all that you need too from others. i just graduated from a massage program and just got a job part time at a wellness center. i love the atmosphere of my job and the type of people that do this as a career are almost always so so sweet! my best support came from my class mates. they were older adults up to there 50s too. i was only 19 when i got pregnant. im soon to be 21 and am happy where im feet are taking me. i hope that you find something that you are inspired by to heal the deep hurt that we all here know feels like!! im sure you are a wonderful mommy and an even better person from this situation! best of luck private message me if youd like to chat! the icons above will give you that option next to reply! BEST WISHES!!!!!!

Amy,
Welcome to the forum and feel free to vent anytime. We all here have problems and advice.
Maywest