The "real" father wants no part of her life. He doesnt talk to or see her, and he's in hiding to avoid child support. I'm only 19 and hes is several years older than me. Why isn't he in her life? I was willing to step up to the plate and be a man, raising a kid by a woman I truly resented. I put up with her pregnant rants and raves while he chilled somewhere. I'm not mad about that because he didn't know. But now that he does...how can he live with himself? So immature, it drives me nuts. I want to go back and see my "ex-daughter", but I get pissed thinking of the crap I put up with over a kid that's not mine.