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Hi, as a single mother of a bi racial 7 yr old I can honestly say I understand what you are going through. When I told my parents at the age of 32 yr that the father of my child was black, they told me either abort the baby or be disowned. I was not going to muer my unborn child. I was totally alone during 8 months of my pregnancy. I was severely depressed and it affected my baby. Please dont let what is happening to you affect your child. I wish my daughter father was out of the picture, he is abusive to me. He was calling me up and harrassing me calling me horrible names in fromt of my 5 yr old. if you want to email me privately, respond to this message with your email address
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Hi, Thank you for responding to my concern, I recently found out that my baby also has Gastroschisis, which is a birth defect in the abdominal wall. I will explain later, I have not talked to the donor he refuses to speak to me and he can care less about the baby. Uhm My E-mail Address is r_dez*hotmail.*** . WBS!
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I understand what both of you are going through. I am pregnant right now with a biracial baby. My boyfriend is black and I am white. He is currently incarcerated and Im not really sure how to deal with this. He has three other kids by two other women and my family to say the least is extremely embarassed. I still love him but im trying to decide if i should continue to talk to him or just move on with my life because Im scared about how all this is going to affect my little girl.
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I don't really understand what his problem is, (with the father of your child) and why he is taking that attitude..........  all of youthis is a great place to come for support, we are several here who have bi-racial kids (dads too!) my son is now 16 and his father is african. my parents - who are very conservative - were shocked that I married a black man, (and I'm sure relieved we're divorced....)but adore their grandchild. The three of them get on great. I am lucky in that I live in an extremely liberal city (Amsterdam) and there are lots of us single mums here with mixed race babies. We (my son and I) have never had one nasty word, look, anything. I can't even imagine how it is in USA...... Being a single parent is hard, of ány child, but oh so worth it! The best thing I can tell you is to love and cherish your child and make him/her feel special and build up their self confidence. It will stand them in good stead through life. You know we make the most beautiful babies!!  |
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i know this was posted awhile ago but just wanted to say that i undestand i have a five year biracial son whose father didnt want him and am pregnant with another boy(by another black man) who doesnt want him either i know what its like to have to be strong on the outside in fornt of everyone but on the inside your crying all the time because your lonely and scared if anyone wants a friend to talk to about this my email is di_di30247@yahoo.com i know i could use a friend i take comfort in the fact that my sons are healthy happy boys!!
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