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Hi, im a 25 yr old Blk female with a 3yr old bi-racial daughter. Her father is a 39yr old white male.
The problem that im am faced with is not the family learning to deal with a biracial child. My daughter surprisingly looks caucasion and could pass for that side of her race. I belive thats why i didnt have a hard time with getting his families acceptance twards her. The thing is ,they cant stand me, and its only due to me being BLK. Im kind ,polite, and i dont disrespect anyone. My daughters father is horrible and i cant lean on him for support. weve been together for over 6 yrs and he will not marry me. I feel that he either has a hidden racsim against blks and thats why he wont, marry me.I also realize he wants his familys acceptance. Guys what do i do!! IM so fed up with being in this relationship, and trying to overcome this issue. He and i are currentley not living togther, due to this.  nullnull[/LIST]    [EMAIL]null[/EMAIL] |
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Hi I am not in a biracial relationship, but in the other hand I will give you the same advice my mother gave me, if you supply the people with the milk they will never buy the cow. In other words, you have giving him eveerything a wife would do except he does not have to have the resposablity to be a husband. Love sees no color, and if he loved you he would not be asshamed of you what so ever. He should love you enough to defined you towards his parents, his parents should love him and your daughter enough not to act racial towards you, think on how that will inturn effect her. If I was you I would put my foot down. Either they treat you with respect or they can not see your daughter, do you really want them to be negitive about you in front of her??? Kids pick up on so much... Please think what is best for your child and your realtionship with your child.... And for the father take away his milk girl!!!!
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