Well today me and my fiance got into a fight about small things now that i think back on it and she ended up going home to her parnets. Shes 7 weeks pregnat now and is keeping me out of my childs birth. I want to be apart of my childs life so bad but everything i try to do to get her back dosnt work and im going crazy knowing i wont be able to see her or my child for 9 months. We had everything taken care of for the birth and i just dont know what to do any more. Can someone please help me?!

Sorry to say but if she's keeping you away from her and the unborn baby, I'm guessing it's not over some "small" stuff. What the heck happened?! It's hard to offer support when we don't understand where you're coming from but ..

give her a little space. Maybe it's hormone talk. Maybe she's still in shock over the pregnancy. Maybe you royally peeved her off! If you keep pestering, she'll keep resisting. Let her know you're available and give her the space she needs to clear her mind. Let her come to you. If in fact, she's adament she doesn't want you back in her life, then proceed with the legal route once the baby is born. In the mean time, back off.

it was over a little fight about her not wanting to get up to say goodbye to someone and it just got bbigger and bigger when i started to clean.....

Heh...I remember *lots* of small stuff that my ex took over the top when she was pregnant. Actually, she did this when she wasn't pregnant too, but man those hormones really did amplify the behavior.

I'm sorry to hear this happened. She's probably just bluffing about keeping you out of the child's life, but you probably should give her some space until she calms down. It's terrible that she'd use your child as a tool in an argument, however.