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>I am not raising this child for him.

yes, but I understand you're supporting your son Jacob where you can, and that's the most important thing. Better than doing the whole work for him. Andy is his child, his responsibility, his life...and although HE is not a child any more, I suppose Moms always feel like their kids are ...kids.

>Andys mom has 6 or 7 sisters, only one without a child (12 years old!!!), & no Daddys around

again, I am glad you're supporting Jacob, especially if that is the situation (not easy I suppose, to say the least).

>He doesn't own a computer & his hours make it hard

give him time...the practical hurdles are usually not the most difficult to surmount...and he will find his way here, or he won't, his choice (as I said already)

Hi Molly, we are in similar situations. My son was only 15 when his daughter was born. Emma is 16 months old. I love love love her. It was not an ideal situation, but I don't believe God makes mistakes. Good Luck, and Peace

Oh, no kidding Shana! My son... well I call him my SUN. And my grandboy is my Ray of Sun. Corny, but I tell you, I'm so proud to have these 2 in my life. Go Does NOT makes mistakes! 2 more weeks & I'm Arizona bound to pick up Andy, woohoo!

Oops. Jacob is dad and Andy is grandson.Then well done, Jacob and hi Andy.