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I am a 35 yr old single Mother of a 4yr old boy who's father was abusive to me and now to my son (in an inappropriate way)...He has had restraining orders on him ,doesnt pay child support(just his Attorney's fee's),lives in a great house in country(which we were thrown out of)he got the Divorce to "Teach me a lesson"...he also has 2 DUI'n no drivers liscens,his mother (ex-mother in law)allowed molestion in her own house....she is alowed to supervise overnight visitations...and I get to go to Jail for keeping my son safe......
When does ie get BETTER? |
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"Parent on Board" Parent on Board |
question, why are you or did you get sent to jail?
I feel for you wanting to protect your son, I have 2 girls ages 5 and 6 and their dad (my ex-boyfriend) sexualy molested the oldest when she was 1, lucky for me he got found out the same day and was arrested a week later, (he is still in prison)the courts were on my side and helped me terminate his parental rights. |
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I am New to SFV |
I didn't follow a Court Order. "Criminal Contempt of Court" is why I get to go to jail...all because the courts don't want to hear about my ex's past behavior...just "Present" behavior, and life.The Court system is a "Good O'l Boy's network where I live...and he doesen't have to pay for Child Support either....but paying your Attorney and your own living expencises is more important than your child....SO I just feel defeated right now..yesterday My attorney Quit the case for lack of funds...well I wish I had some Child Support to incorprate with income from job instead of everything going to just live...and my son and I live with my Parents.
My Jail sentence is up to 46 weekends and I have served this will be my 7th one....but nobody(judges) wants to hear WHY I want to keep my son safe....It's crazy and it isn't over yet...
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Learning to Surf The Board |
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Learning to Surf The Board |
There are laws to stop this and to protect you. You have to look hard for them. Start with your low income legal services. They are back-logged but do not give up this is what an abuser wants you to do sooooooo he wins. Do not cave in find your rights they are there!!! Go to your D.A. write a letter to a congressman/woman make them pay attention. What ever you do don't stop. You were given the right to live in the U.S. use it!!!! |
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Learning to Surf The Board |
Yes there are states of "good ole boy's" but I live next door to a County Judge and even he tells me there are ways around the good ole boy syndrome. It took me a few years to find this route but I did so it can be done. Your first approach is
Pay attention to your attention Pay close attention to, it is not waht is being said, but what is not being said Use a affirmitive request and response to the judge "Know the system!! Do not be afraid to speak out and up But NICELY, With all respect swallow pride and defeat and move on to a new device Pay close attention to waht your ex has and is doing Find the flaws and paly hardball with them. Last and most important "GET YOUR BACKBONE UP AND "DO BATTLE" Tater |
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Thank you soo much for all the ADVISE..will be utilizing it this week!!! Your a Blessing! |
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