Hello, i am new to the forum, but i come here for help. I am a single mom with a 15 year old son. He does not have many friends, but just recently he got a group of 2 year older friends. They are visiting often, and i just realised that they are visiting him just to watch me around the house. I am know as a "milf". I am really confused for what to do. I am really happy he has friends since his father left, he was all alone for a while. Should I put up with it for the sake of my son, should i even press forward (ex. dress sexier). I am really desperate, please help me!

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should i even press forward (ex. dress sexier)

ABSOLUTELY NOT
You do not want to encourage this in anyway. Hopefully you can find a way to steer them away, have them go outside to hang out or in a different room but to where you can still somewhat keep an ear out as to what they are up to.
Perhaps they really aren't there JUST to check you out but rather that's just a "bonus" of being his friend. If not and it is just about the chance to be checking you out than they aren't really friends and so just as well that he wasn't being "used" like that.