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Hello to whom ever is out there. My name is Trish,Im 33 and going through a divorce right now. I have a 9yr old son and a 6yr old daughter. My almost ex just moved out last week and I'm packing up my house and moving the kids and myself back to my mothers. Please tell me it gets better. I'm scared and feeling alone. The divorce was my choice and I'm sure I wont regret it but it is very scarry to go through especially with the kids.
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Hi Trish, I have never been married and I am sorry yours ended, from what I have seen in marriages my friends and others, it does get better, my suggestion to you is to keep busy I think you like most people who has lived with a person, married or not, are having the feelings of routine kick in, what I mean when I say that is that while you were married you did things a certain way, your house was a certain way, now you have to readjust things and its not the norm and so you feel alone, I went through it when my ex and I split, its really rough at times but it gets better each day but keep busy but also give yourself time to heal from the seperation. There are gonna be days where you feel you made the worst decison of your life but know that you didn't, I don't know your whole situation but, I'm sure you made the best decison for you and your kids. Good luck to you and your starting over.
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Faith will get you through all things. Trust and believe and you'll see. Thirty seven and divorced, and free from all the useless drama in my life. That's a burden I no longer carry...My focus point has always been on the children, they've kept me strong and prayerful. They're my angels. The trust I see in their eyes when I start to feel like..."Man, it has to be a brighter day"...You know those overwhelming feeling of, "When am I going to wake up?"... Sweetie, it does get better...Each day is a new day to get it right! Here if you need me.... |
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trish, hi. i just signed up this morning. so i'm new at this also. i'm 35 i have a 5yr old son and have been devorced about a year now. i hate being alone. i'm still having a real hard time at it. the devorce was my doing also. i had been married for 14 years and it just got to lonley for me. it does get a little bit easier as you go. you just find other thing to do to keep your mind off things.. i'm here if you ever want to chat...
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Hi! I'm a 39 year old who left her abusive husband when I was 9 weeks preganat. I now have a five year old son who has no memory of his father. It's really rough at first...you feel like some days you'll never make it through, but then after some time, you DO make it through and things get a little better. You get your new life into full swing, get busy with the little details of every day living and next thing you know, you're okay.
Hang in there. It'll get better, I promise. |
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Hey there. I went through the exact same thing (with a 9 yr old son and a 6 yr old daughter too) last year. I almost moved my kids back to mom and dad, but their father would not let us leave the state. I moved out onto my own, and have been struggling - but it is well worth the sanity. You will have bad days and good days - and it DOES get better - you will get through this. Good luck!
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