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Originally posted by bergeroz:
[qb]Hi,

I am a single dad following my wife's separation at her request in April last year.
I have 3 sons, and am getting on with life now after the shock & grief.
I have good support, and have been to counselling, etc.
If you'd like to get in touch just drop a line[/qb]
 
Posts: 1 | Location: Kentucky | Registered: 22 February 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Mark, I'd welcome some advice on how to keep your head high after you have been beaten into the ground by the lawyers and an ex-wife who seems to go out of her way to make my life a misery. At 41, with two lovely girls 7 and 5 who I adore and try to see as often as I can (even though their mother makes it near impossible), I sometimes wonder if I will ever feel better and rebuild a rewarding life. My ex-wife is now in counselling as she is the proverbial 'insecure, bully type' and all I want to do is spend quality time with my kids, make good on commitments to my girls and ex-wife and rebuild a new life...unfortunately, I keep getting stabbed in the heart of kicked in the b*lls by my ex. If anyone can give me some advice on how I minimise the hurt she creates, I would very much welcome the support.

John
 
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Hi John, Iam sorry to hear about your predicament. Iam a believer of there is a light at the end of the tunnel somewhere.
Although my experiences haven't been the same as yours regarding lawyers'etc.
It was difficult because Iam Partially sighted, different agencies attempted to take my kids as they thought I couldn't cope.When I proved them wrong, they tried a different tactic by saying it wasn't right a man raising 3 girls.So I got smart and read up on the law and threatened them with Discrimination Law (both Disability and Sex Discrimination) and after a while they backed down.Knowing I wasn't going to roll over and play to their tune.
But as for keeping my head high it is difficult.So I keep myself busy by studying for a degree Iam 36 and using the knowledge gained to eventually get a job. If I can find one. To provide my kids with a better future than I have.I have accepted a volunteer teaching assistant post at my kids school starting in September.I do everything I can to keep myself focused on the future.
If you get yourself registered PM me with more details.Then I can try to be more objective in my comments as I will have more detail to work with.

Before I forget and be rude.

Welcome to the group.

Best wishes

Mark
 
Posts: 681 | Location: Cheshire, England | Registered: 11 December 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Originally posted by trader99:
[qb]Greetings
I am a single dad.I have a 16(almost 17) year old boy.We live in Indiana.Just wanted to introduce myself.
I've been seperated for almost a year now and am still reeling from my wife leaving me for another man.I guess I need some help and this seems to be good place to start.[/qb]
 
Posts: 1 | Location: Chicago suburbs | Registered: 11 March 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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This is my first time doing this sort of thing. I have not seen many letters from the U.K
I am a single dad of one boy who is 7. Being a single parent is hard work but the rewards are great. I use to be a builder by trade but had to take a look at my life and went down a different career path, one which my son is proud of his old man taking.
I would not change this situation for the world. The only thing I find somtime is that it can be lonley.
 
Posts: 1 | Location: folkestone | Registered: 22 April 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Hi and welcome to the site.You will find some good friends and we all support each other as much as we can.


Best wishes,

Mark
 
Posts: 681 | Location: Cheshire, England | Registered: 11 December 2003Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Definition,
I would like to welcome you as well.
I know what you mean about the lonely feeling at times, I just try to stay busy most times between my daughter and business, and of course the internet Smiler
Good group of people in here.
Don
 
Posts: 4711 | Location: California | Registered: 15 January 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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[qb]I love my kids too and hope to be where you are soon. Right now I'm having a hard time being present with my kids. I'm still so sad about my seperation. And when I do something with them it feels odd for me and I feel sad for them that their mom isn't there too. I miss that family feeling and I mostly miss it for them. But hopefully I can give them some quality connections and time together. Have any ideas for fun together which are out of the house and not McDons playland or chucky-cheese and which are also suitable for a 3 year old that likes to run away? By the way it's nice to have someone to talk to. Thanks for just saying you're there.[/qb]
 
Posts: 1 | Location: Tacoma, Wa. | Registered: 09 June 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
Don
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Welcome aboard Definition. I absolutely agree about the rewards. I've been blessed with seeing a huge turnaround in my daughter over the last several years. I got custody when she was 8, 11 now and she is doing so much better these days. Hoping it carries through the teenage years as well.
The loneliness, well what is there to say, here's to hoping that changes as well. In the meantime it beats being in a bad relationship anyday.
 
Posts: 4711 | Location: California | Registered: 15 January 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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hi i am a single dad in ohio 48 yrs old with a 14 yr old daughter her mom is a deadbeat mom who is living in nevada i have had my daughter since she was 6 her mom drug me thru court for 6 yrs and made me jump thru a lot of hoops but the truth always prevailed and my daughter stayed with me----- good luck to all you single dad`s----------remember your children are our nations future guide them well thru their adolescent years
 
Posts: 2 | Location: niles ohio | Registered: 13 June 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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welcome dblAfuel1,
Sounds like we are very much in the same boat, though you have a few more years in then me Big Grin . My daughter is 11 now. That and her deadbeat mom is only about 30 minutes away, so I have that headache to deal with.
You speak the truth about the kids and the future. Sometimes I think more parents(single or not) need to keep that in mind.
Don
 
Posts: 4711 | Location: California | Registered: 15 January 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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Originally posted by MY2PALS:
[qb]Another single dad over 40.Just wanted to stop by and say hello.Girl 13 and Boy 10.

Thanks[/qb]
 
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I am a single father as well and 40

been raising two fine boys(10 and 12) since they were 2/3)

it is a lonely undertaking at times
 
Posts: 19 | Location: Lexington NC | Registered: 10 November 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
Don
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duane, welcome to the forum.
Lots of good people here, enjoy the site.
 
Posts: 4711 | Location: California | Registered: 15 January 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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[qb] duane, welcome to the forum.
Lots of good people here, enjoy the site. [/qb]
thanks for the welcome....

just wanting to hang out with other single dads...(or moms)
 
Posts: 19 | Location: Lexington NC | Registered: 10 November 2004Reply With QuoteEdit or Delete MessageReport This Post
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