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Old 11-27-2015, 11:23 AM   #3
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Honestly I am here still because he makes me the happiest I have ever been in my life. The only thing that has ever caused a fight or anxiety is how he handles this situation, or how he doesn't handle it I suppose.

He has offered to walk away from the kid completely for me, but I know what that will do to him and I can't let him do that.

He honestly feels like he is doing everything he can to make me feel better about this, but he doesn't understand that every time he breaks a promise to me it feels like the dagger is digging deeper and deeper, even if it is just something as stupid as replying to a text message from her. In my mind a promise is a promise, but I guess to him there are conditional rules.

I just can't take this stress anymore and I certainly don't want to do this when the kid is old enough to realize what is going on.
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