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Old 12-01-2015, 03:58 PM   #6
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I do agree with CF in regards to him being willing to walk away.
I can also see your side or what you're saying.

From my view, I am not sure why you would want to be with someone who by your own admission has lied and kept things from you. Also, if you were to have a child with this man, but he seems to be putting you two in financial hardship (giving her money which causes hard ship for you guys).

I know you love him, but it doesn't seem like he has any of his priorities in order and hasn't yet 'cut the cord' so to speak with his ex. It's a fine line to walk, trying to balance communication with the ex in regards to the child, and a more personal interaction with an ex.

There is, imo, a difference between you handling it, and him handling it, and it doesn't sound like he is at all......
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