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Old 05-09-2006, 05:09 PM   #6
kari2482
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I don't know if you are still reading this message but if so here you go. My mom hads custody of my sisters first 3 kids. The two oldest are boys and they used to ask about their father. All my mom said was that he wasn't ready to be a daddy yet. She left it at that. I think it was 6 months to a year the boys finally realized what my mom was saying. She never put down their father and she said was he wasn't ready. That is what I will have to tell my 6 month old when he starts asking, because I know his dad won't stick around after a few years of seeing my son.

Just remember don't put down her father because he is a part of her. She might think that there is a part of her you don't like. Trust me on this one. Just next time she ask just tell her what I said after asking a few times she should catch on. I wish you the best of luck.
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