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Old 04-25-2006, 01:59 PM   #5
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I agree with CA about the questions. My father had to deal with a similar situation and through out his life has resented the fact that no one would be straight with him about his heritage. He has had to dig it up for himself and now many of the voices that could have answered his questions are just now telling him the truth now that they are on their death bed's.

Now I am having a child and the father does not want to be involved, but he comes from a good family thus my advantage to give my child their history from both sides. For this I am greatful and my promise to myself and to my child is to always be honest with eachother. If they have questions give them the truth in return they will do the same for you. Resentment is an aweful thing to deal with. Your daughter trusts you, give her every reason to continue doing so.

Best of the best to you and your daughter!
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