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Old 04-01-2013, 11:15 PM   #1
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I am 8 weeks out of a relationship but just in the last week took him off my health insurance, cell phone plan and car insurance. He is ANGRY! He had anger issues which is why he is no longer in my life. However, I have heard from mutual friends that he is saying he is going to get a restraining order against me and says that I am stalking him and threatening him with a gun. I kicked him out. I haven't seen him or talked to him in over a month. Due to this threat, I have blocked all of his family from my facebook page and any of the friends that we have mutually. I don't want them to know anything of what I am doing so it doesn't get back to him. We live an hour apart now. I am a single mom who works full time. I don't have time to stalk him. LOL!! I don't want to have anything to do with him at all. I just want him gone. Yes, I have a gun but not a license to carry and I don't carry it. Is there anything else I should be doing to protect myself? By the way, I have never threatened him with a gun. I am not sure where that is coming from.
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Document EVERYTHING! What you hear, if you hear from him. Just words... no feelings. I never think it hurts to introduce yourself and your situation to the authorities, either. Go in and say Hey, not sure what to do here but I'm nervous, no cause for a restraining order, but would feel better if you were aware.
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Agreed. Document away. You don't want him to get that restraining order. You would have to surrender your gun to the police department until it expired.

Judges are pretty good about figuring this stuff out. He would need to get it where you live, serve you, and then you would be able to object and have a hearing. It's going to look VERY bad that he got this after you kicked him out, then dropped all the coverage you had on him. FAPA's are not the easiest thing to get. Judges don't generally like giving them unless there is some proof.
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Thank you so much. Documenting I can do and I have already talked to my neighbors who know what he looks like so they are watching out for me. I told one of them and he just burst out laughing. I work from home so I rarely leave my house unless I am running errands or seeing friends.
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