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Old 06-19-2014, 01:33 AM   #1
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Hi All, well here's a little background. I had a one night stand and became pregnant. I'm not involved with the father and don't want to be. At first I tried to reach out and he seemed interested and we would just communicate via text. All he seems to want is me and not the baby, when I rejected that idea, he cursed me out and said he didn't want to have anything to do with me or the baby. Ok, I'm not too bothered because I really don't know him too well and don't what my child exposed to him. I made a mistake and I have a beautiful daughter out of it. My question is, how do I protect us for him possibly wanting to be involved in the future?
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You honestly can not do much. My advice is never to file for child support if you want to make sure he doesn't bother you. If he pops up in the future, then he would have to take you to court to a) establish paternity and b) gain parenting time. The more time that passes, the harder that will be for him to show that it is in your child's best interest. Don't rock the boat, in other words.
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Right. Just don't try to communicate with him at all and don't be involved with any of his friends.
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Thanks for the replies, Yes I've pretty much cut him off, not pursuing child support. I'm just saving all the evil things he said to me via text, just in case.
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Yes, I agree with the others. And be sure to 'back up' the documentation you have on any threatening/evil things he is saying to you, as a 'just in case' measure for the future.

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