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Old 05-03-2017, 04:19 PM   #1
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Hi! I just got divorced but have a older son from a previous relationship and have a custody agreement through the state of Texas. Since my divorce my house has been on the market and I'm planning on moving but only about 20 miles away. We have a clause that states we can't leave our county or contiguous counties and I'm not. My sons father did break this clause and has just been driving the long distance to make Thursday visitation and 1/3/5th weekends and has never missed a scheduled visit. Now that I am divorced they are concerned that I'm moving farther and I'm getting lots of messages from them saying they want to sit down & talk. I'm easily intimidated and not good at expressing my words. I don't know what to do. I'm being made out to feel like the bad person here when they broke the orders before.
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Old 05-16-2017, 02:25 AM   #2
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You said you are not good in expressing yourself, then I would suggest you to hire a good lawyer who may represent you and your thoughts. Lawyer will also deal with the people who are making your bad impression. The lawyer has experience of legal issues and can know the possible result of an action. The legal advisers assist the clients by getting the required evidence to support the case. Also, you may find more online.
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Old 05-16-2017, 06:48 AM   #3
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Just tell them that your move will not break the court order and leave it at that. You do not need to discuss the issue any further. Good luck.
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Oh, I know you can talk to a lawyer and get advice on things like that. There's a good connection I have if you need it let me know.
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Old 06-03-2017, 03:50 PM   #5
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Just tell them that your move will not break the court order and leave it at that. You do not need to discuss the issue any further. Good luck.
Best advise here. Short and to the point.
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Thanks Dad! I got it from the way you deal with Motherthing.
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Thanks Dad! I got it from the way you deal with Motherthing.


The down side of it is she has taken to going off on the boys. DS1, 2 and 3 have set boundaries with her, so she has focused on DS4. He's sorting out his ways of dealing with her and is becoming stronger for it. I to be strong in setting the boundaries, but always be respectful. Even when telling someone to go to he77.
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Dad, she is one person who needs to be told!
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