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Old 07-30-2017, 10:58 PM   #1
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Our orders basically say the "child returns prior to the commencement of the fall school term." So when is that supposed to be when the noncustodiasl parent is not responding to my suggestions and requests for her input? I would appreciate help with whats the best course of action since shes not communicating and school starts aug 14th? If shes going to try and keep him, which is possible, should i do something asap to avoid him being enrolled where she lives? She lied to get visitation so im concerned. Thank you.
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Talk to your lawyer. They are the best in knowing the local court and how it deals with orders.
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I was hoping to get some of your thoughts prior to doing that.
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Like Dad 1st, I also learned the hard way. I'm just thankful I had a good lawyer.

First of all, loos at the custody order as well as the state guidelines for your state. Was the other parent allotted a specific period of time during the summer? If so, and that time has het, then go get the kid. is she refuses, you may need to have the local police with you but they may nod do anything unless the court order specifically spells out time periods and dates.

Some states say that all the year's parenting dates need to be set by a certain day. always best to get all the dates in writing and delivered by Certified mail if possible with signature confirmation. If the other parent objects to what you spell out, try talking about it and if nothing else, then mediation or back to court. but that gets ugly and expensive.

Hope your local family court website has some state specific advise. and remember, if you have physical custody, the school cannot register the child. if they do, you simply show up with the police at the school to get the kid and file contempt against the other parent.

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I hope you solve this issue very soon.
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Thanks to those concerned. She waited to the last minute to contact me and acted like it's no big deal so of course I just let it go and arranged meeting time. Tearing into her like she's a normal person would have done no good so it was business as usual. Lol (but not as one would under normal circumstances).
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Aboom, glad it ended on a positive note.

One thing you may want to look at is getting a clarification from the courts on specific time window for the summer visit. most school summer breaks are 10-12 weeks. Perhaps it needs to be specified that she gets half of the summer break or 5 weeks. The dates that the child will be with her can be something like "For a period of 5 consecutive weeks beginning in the Saturday following the last day of school" or something like that.

The key is that Summer is for family vacations and such so you should get some of that time as well.

But as we mentioned above, please find a good Family Law attorney, one that specializes in "Father's Rights" would be good as well.

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