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Old 06-08-2010, 09:01 PM   #1
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Just saw the Official KS State CS calculator....

Biased on minimum wage and 40 hours (Per State Law). my ex should be paying 10 times what she currently is....
If ex stays Status-Que, I will to. If she takes me to court for custody, I will seek the full amount of CS and Med costs and even Education cost I can.
She says she cannot afford $30 and month and travel costs, well she is getting off cheap for now.

I don't care about the money nor do I want to see her hurt. I just want my sons safe and healthy. And it is a bargaining chip.
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Old 06-08-2010, 09:25 PM   #2
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good for you dad...having an ace in the hole is always a good thing...

it's mentioned here often that visitation and support are 2 separate issues...and I agree that legally they are...

but the reality is that in the every day relationship between people, they are often intertwined...

if i were you, i'd be finding every bit of info and/or dirt I could...i'd want to go to court with a ______ army...and hope that you only need to flash a knife...you know what I mean?
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I wonder if KS and NE laws are similar (my divorce was filed in Nebraska). If so, there is a lot she could be paying out if she doesn't watch it.
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I couldnt agree with BD more.
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Knowledge is power, Dad. And can bring such sweet peace of mind. Good for you!
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Old 06-08-2010, 10:31 PM   #6
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C'mon Dad why so bitter? That is $30 a month.......$1 a day. That works out to 25 cents per child per day.
Mind you that is $30 more than I get.....so you can understand my jealousy.....LOL
I hope you don't have to "use" such things though, let's hope she fades away.
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C'mon Dad why so bitter? That is $30 a month.......$1 a day. That works out to 25 cents per child per day.
Mind you that is $30 more than I get.....so you can understand my jealousy.....LOL
I hope you don't have to "use" such things though, let's hope she fades away.
gonna call you Sally Struthers from now on
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Yeah, I have a similar card in my hand. Not out to hurt or punish, but I'll play it without hesitation to protect my child.
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Old 06-08-2010, 11:46 PM   #9
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Maybe his ex can sponsor a child? LOL
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Old 06-09-2010, 07:35 AM   #10
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Good for you, Dad!! I also have my bargaining chip or 'card' to threaten with. I will use it if I have to, but want to keep it close for now in case I need it to protect E.
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be thankful Dad that you are not on the paying end Bro.

and I wish I could have had a $30 a month CS payment, and not the $1100 a month CS that I did have.

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ps in IL, 1 kid is 20%, 2 kids is 28%, 3 or more is 32% of net pay.
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Old 06-09-2010, 08:13 PM   #12
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dawg, If I was on the paying end it would be $1200 a month.
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Yea I hear you Bro. and If I did what "She" did, then you would have been out looking for me.
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Yeah, I have a similar card in my hand. Not out to hurt or punish, but I'll play it without hesitation to protect my child.

Same here as well.
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