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Old 11-16-2009, 11:37 AM   #1
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It all traces back to the support I've gotten since I found this site and tips and information that has me where I am right now. Feeling pretty good right now and can't believe how ONE suggestion on this site helped out myself and even others. I went to visit my case worker about an hour ago before I get ready for my work day this afternoon and she told me that my letter started something good because they had officials from surrounding cities to come in and help serve the rest of the huge stack that they had and she has a small stack left that she has to go out and personally find the ones left (with someone with her). That is so awesome to me, not only did I get things going for me but others as well.

I also told her about M being in town still but staying out of sight, she said when they set the date for the support obligation after the one coming in January (confirm default/paternity) that they will go ahead and give it to his p.o. and not even try their store or his house per my request. This is AMAZING! Now even after January I don't have to wait around and worry and wonder. Now I just hope he will remain where he is for two more months and I should be good to go. Once I get the date in January I am going to physically go up to his p.o.'s office and tell him the date and wear a business suit so that he will see me as a woman representing whats right for her child and not a girl looking to make trouble.

She also told me that if he doesn't show up to the c.sup obligation date they will issue a warrant for his arrest so if that happens they will notify his p.o. of that as well. This is also awesome b/c even if he doesn't show then his p.o. can still help out. And I don't even want him to go to jail, in jail he can't help support DD2 but it will at least get him to pay attention and he's on probation for a good long time so at least I can try and squeeze some support out of him until he is off it. I am very happy right now. Mykidsisfirst thank you once again and everyone else on this site...had I not found this site I would truly have been still head scratching and wondering but instead per everyones advice I am now seeing results. God Bless everyone here who has been a support to me and not only did it help me but others in my area also! You guys rock so hard!
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Old 11-16-2009, 11:45 AM   #2
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Sands, that's wonderful to hear.
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That's awesome! Way to be proactive and stick with it!!
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Old 11-16-2009, 11:52 AM   #4
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VERY cool!! This will ALL be worth it in the end.....

I also agree that this place is awesome. Gotten me thru some tough times!!
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Old 11-16-2009, 12:07 PM   #5
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I'm so glad to hear that things are looking up for you. Keep up the good work, your kids are totally worth it!! *hugz*
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I'm so happy that things keep getting better for you There is no doubt in my mind that you are going to make it through and be a stronger person for it!!
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Great news Sands.
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Way to go!!!!!
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good job! Way to go!
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One more bite of that elephant. Good going.
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Amen to this being a great place The kudos also goes to you too for being active in a positive way. Knowledge is power
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Wonderful, Sands!
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Old 11-17-2009, 08:09 AM   #14
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Yeah! Sands! I am very happy to help. Everyone here is.
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Old 11-21-2009, 06:47 AM   #15
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This is so cool. Make me feel more comfortable being here. thank you for sharing your story.
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