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Old 06-08-2008, 12:58 PM   #1
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hi i am a 32 year old lady that is going through a bad custody battle with her ex.

he is telling me things and i am stupid enough to listen and beleive him.

my son has just turned 7 and i think he os finding this hard
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Old 06-08-2008, 12:58 PM   #2
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hi i am a 32 year old lady that is going through a bad custody battle with her ex.

he is telling me things and i am stupid enough to listen and beleive him.

my son has just turned 7 and i think he os finding this hard
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Old 07-11-2008, 07:56 AM   #3
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Please feel free to post more. People here have great advice and can get you to look at any situation from many angles so that hopefully you will start to feel some support and relief from the situation.
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Old 07-11-2008, 10:47 AM   #4
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WELCOME!!! Deffinately would like to hear more about your situation...You came to the right place for advise on what to believe or not to believe!! You will hear from people that have been on BOTH sides of the custody issues so you can deffinately get a clearer picture & separate truth from fiction!! Education is the first step to empowerment!!!

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Old 07-11-2008, 11:12 AM   #5
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Welcome, the ladies are right, you've come to a great place to help sort out what's what.
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<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-title">quote:</div><div class="ip-ubbcode-quote-content">Originally posted by tinalou32:
he is telling me things and i am stupid enough to listen and beleive him.
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O.k. That is your first step. You are already aware that you are "stupid" enough to listen to him and believe him.......
DO NOT put yourself down into saying you are "stupid"!!!! I am sure you are NOT!!

You certainly are NOT stupid for getting out of a negative relationship!! Give yourself a pat on the back (and then another one!) for having done this. And making the choice for you and your son's well-being and happiness.

Turn it around and stop listening and believing in the lies he is telling you
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Hi,
In my experience they like to say anything that will justify their behaviour. Put your fingers in your ears and if that fails there is always napalm.
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