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Old 11-04-2009, 09:05 PM   #1
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I just spoke to her on the phone and she is at a restaurant right outside the hospital waiting to see him. It might not be while he is still living, but she will get to say goodbye. She sounds much better today. She is there with an old friend, her kids are with another friend at home.

She asked me to come on and update everyone and thank everyone for everything.
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Old 11-04-2009, 09:12 PM   #2
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Im glad she decided to go she might have otherwise regretted it. She's in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old 11-04-2009, 09:19 PM   #3
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Oh Thanks idig! I have been wondering about her all day! I am so glad she is there. Sending her well wishes and prayers!
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Old 11-04-2009, 10:24 PM   #4
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Good for her making the choice to go in spite of everything. I hope she finds peace. Thanks for the update and glad she sounds well!
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Old 11-04-2009, 11:43 PM   #5
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Thanks for updating. I have really been thinking of her all day today. I told my mother thank you today, and how much I loved her for never, ever writing me off when I was so screwed up. I shared with my mom Sara's story and my mom said that she would be keeping Sara in her prayers.
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Old 11-04-2009, 11:47 PM   #6
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I'll be sure to pass that on to her if I talk to her before she logs back on.

I am so thankful her friend is there with her and that her little ones were able to stay home with another friend.
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idig thank you for keeping up with sara and being a bridge for us here. What a wonderful heart u have.

Lighting a candle for sara and her family.
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Old 11-05-2009, 01:29 AM   #8
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Old 11-05-2009, 06:16 AM   #9
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I was also thinking about Sara and what she's been dealing with. I hope she gets her goodbye and her 'family' just leaves her alone. I'm so glad she has supportive friends.
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Thank you for updating us Idig. Good luck Sara!
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Thanks Idig!! I am so happy that she gets this opportunity for closure. She is in my thoughts as she faces this difficult time!
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Old 11-05-2009, 08:16 AM   #12
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Please keep the prayers coming. She hasn't been able to see him yet.
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Hugs for Sara!!!!
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UUUUUGH. Don't you just wanna BE there for her and move her family ASIDE!! Oh Sara.....I hope you stay strong and get to do what you need to do.
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Old 11-05-2009, 09:50 AM   #17
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Ugh - i wasn't on last night & was glad to see the update, but not so glad when i scrolled down to see the latest. grr...

Sara, you are in my thoughts & prayers, and no matter how this plays out you know that you did everything you could to make peace and find some type of closure. Love to you.
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Old 11-05-2009, 09:58 AM   #18
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I hear ya Hanzi...hope things take a turn for the better in this sordid mess...so unfair to sara but she is strong and I trust she will make it through. Prayers still out.
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I posted my update on the other one and too tired to do it again, but thank you all so much for the support. Had a nice chat with one sis and recieved a text from the other sister about how much Dad hated me. Dont take it too much to heart though, she is the crazy sister . Didnt get the closure I wanted but feel very calm and accepting of things I cant change......or it may be 2 days no sleep but am ok
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